The personal is political.

Carol Hanisch

In a world that expects us to conform to the status quo with barely any support, it is a rebellious act of love when we choose to invest in ourselves—especially when we don’t look like this guy:

In front of a teal background is a white, blond-haired man wearing a white shirt with gray tie. He has a surprised look on his face, with a hand at each cheek.

While this “Chad” may be surprised, the rest of us are not.

We live in a cisheteronormative, imperialist, capitalist, white supremacist patriarchy, there’s no denying it (sorry Chad). So when we invest in ourselves, not only are we telling ourselves that we are worthy—of fulfillment, happiness, success—but we are actively creating a world that believes everyone should not just survive, but thrive. It is my dream to support other marginalized folk to gain clarity on who they really are, and build a life that reflects their whole selves despite the circumstances.

As your life coach, I will support you to:

  • Recognize your core intentions and values
  • Visualize ways to go beyond your perceived limitations
  • Align action to who you authentically ARE
  • Realize goals with clarity, focus, ease, and grace

This is life coaching rooted in intersectional feminism and ontology. Ontology is the study of the nature of being. Its aim is to explore and express the heart of what it is to be human: The values we live by, the heroic journey we are each here to take, and, ultimately, the gifts to others we want to be known for.

Through an ontological lens, we can see that everyone:

  • is a hero, whole and complete
  • has goals, dreams, and a desire to make a difference
  • has a their own voice of wisdom
  • deserves to be treated with dignity and respect

I believe in a world where everyone is supported 100%—a world where each individual has the opportunity to show up as their full authentic selves, and can make the contributions they are here to make. This practice is not results based, but instead is founded on a relationship that supports you to access your internal voice of wisdom, see what’s important to you, and take consistent authentic action according to what you see.

Who am I?

I am a white individual who was raised in a middle-class family and is college educated. I am also autigender nonbinary, pansexual, polyamorous, an autistic ADHDer, and disabled by Hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and its comorbidities. I believe in dismantling colonialist structures and breaking down taboos surrounding sex-body-kink positivity, polyamory, race, gender, sexuality, and neurodivergence. My coaching education was through the Academy for Coaching Excellence, an Accredited Coach Training Program through the International Coaching Federation, founded by Dr. Maria Nemeth.

Who is my ideal client?

I love serving neurodivergent, queer people who feel stuck in their life’s journey. These individuals want to show up to life’s circumstances as who they really are, so that they can achieve their goals and lead an authentically purposeful life. When you are supported to make the best of your everyday, you are freed up to be the change maker you want to be, in your own life and for the world.

I am also committed to leveraging my privilege to serve marginalized communities at large. This means that I will only ever offer my services on a sliding scale, along with scholarship opportunities. Click here for package pricing, and be sure to schedule a free discovery session at the bottom of this page if interested!

If you are a parent or loved one specifically to someone in the LGBTQIA+ or neurodivergent communities and are looking for support in supporting them, I can absolutely be a resource to you.

Areas of expertise:

  • Gender
  • Sexuality
  • Neurodivergence
  • Intra- or Interpersonal relationships
  • Polyamory
  • Sex-body-kink positivity
  • Disability
  • Anti-racism 
  • Diversity, equity, and inclusion work (DEI, separate pricing scale)

Schedule a free Discovery Session with me today!